Post by adreannaTal{fb} on Jan 15, 2011 4:34:01 GMT -5
[shadow=red,left,300]FIRST GIRL[/shadow]
this girl has been asked recently what the role of the home’s first girl is. she realizes that while she knows what her role is (and that is what her Master has set out for her), it has not been set out clearly for others.
this girl hopes that the following will help clarify
this girl belongs to our Master. when she first met him, she was naturally the last girl on his chain. over a period of time she worked hard and became his first girl on his chain. because she is her Masters’s first girl, she also is the homes’s first girl, and with that comes a few extra responsibilities.
any first girl, whether first on the chain or first in home, finds that her primary and most important duty as such is to help the other slaves. to try to help them become the best slaves they can be. in this girl’s case, because she is the home’s first girl, her duty extends beyond that of those on our Master’s chain to ALL the slaves in the home even viziting ones. this can include listening, words of caution, serving as a resource, and so forth.
one of the ways we all improve is to have what we do wrong pointed out to us. this one tries to do so in a non-critical way as much as possible. more than one slave in home has received a pm form this girl noting that proper home procedure ( basic protocol) is this or that such and such a rule is being broken.
being a slave is hard work, there is so much we all must know, that even the most seasoned slave can forget a rule now and then. if this girl sees it, she tries to point it out so her sister will not get in trouble.
this one will be a bit stronger with those she sees deliberately flaunting not only the rules, but the Gorean way and the fire that burns in the belly of true Gorean slaves. as the homes’s first girl, this one holds switching rights over ALL other girls in home. ONLY the home’s first girl has such authority, and this one NEVER wants to use that authority – but it is there and it comes form the books. when a home’s first girl speaks to ANY slave in camp, she is to be obeyed because she does have some authority over them.
however, a good home first girl, and this one hopes she is, does not try to use what authority she has been granted .. rather she tries to get her point across by drawing on the respect she hopes she has earned among her sisters.
she is also there to try to help settle disputes among slaves. Frees should not have to be bothered with petty disagreements among slaves. it is beneath their notice,and the books clearly state that Masters do not bother with their slaves’ bickerings or disagreements. but sometimes it helps to have a third party step in, one who is not involved in the situation, and that is part of this girl’s role as the home’s first girl.
any slave in camp who has a problem should know that she can came to this one at anytime, and this girl will try to help her. it does not matter who her Master is, this girl will listen and try to help. while it is understood that in general, slaves should take their problems to their Masters, in reality their problems often involve their Masters and sometimes it helps to bounce ideas off another before approaching a Master, and sometimes, we all just need a little sympathy. that is part of this girl’s function.
however, two things all slaves in home must understand … if you are whining about things you should not be whining about, then this girl will say so … she is blunt, to the point, and frankly has little patience for those who are not really trying to be good slaves .. but if you have a true problem, this one would cut off her arm to try and help you.
second, you also need to understand, that as the home’s first girl, part of her duty (or any first girl’s) is to keep our Master informed of what goes on in the camp when he is not around or what is going on in the shadows.thus the reason her name is in the home constantly do not ask this girl not to tell our Master something you have told her. she cannot promise that … if she thinks our Master needs to know something, she MUST tell him. He demands that of her, and as his slave this one would never even consider it … she is slave and keeps no secrets from her Master.
a first girl also she knows more about Gor than many in home not saying she knows all...for she is learning every day as well but knows more then some , and as the home’s first girl, this one serves as a resource for both Frees and slaves. she will answer questions as well as she can … as long as she does not perceive that the one who is asking is just being lazy.
let’s face it, this one has spent thousands of hours working on the home’s website, and when the answer can be found there, this one doesn’t really appreciate having to spend her time answering a question that the asker should just go look up for herself. or should know for the many years they claim they have been in GOR rooms
there is an exception to this, though … there are times when a slave is in the middle of a serve or in the middle of talking to a Free , and suddenly comes up short on an answer and needs to know something asap. ask away then … this one will be glad to help.
it also is generally a home’s first girl’s responsibility to train new slaves. at this point, this girl is the ONLY slave charged with that duty. all slaves old and new go through a series of lessons posted on the website, so they all have the same training – they are taught what the Master has told this girl to teach them.
(seems tho we cannot get past basic protocol that is a problem)
also, as the home’s first girl, it is her duty to serve as an example to the others in the camp. this girl is not perfect, far from it, but in home she tries to be as perfect as she can possibly be. this one is like all slaves, she at times disappoints, at times angers, her Master.
finally, even though she is the home’s first girl, this one is, first and foremost, her Master’s slave. a good first girl does not forget that. it is her job to know her Master better than anyone else in home so that she KNOWS what he wants, knows how he would think on a certain subject. this one knows our Master that well … and yet, she discusses everything with him. while it may appear on the surface that this girl is making decisions and acting on her own, that is not the case. this girl can’t remember any incident when she was not acting on her Masters instruction. thus if adreanna tells you something her Master already knows.....and if you all would come around more read the website you will see what you have missed and know what adreanna is telling you is true. girl comes to your pm box or talks to you in the home about things that need to be....yet some of you defi what girl is telling you....and will not go by what adreanna tells you....think if you were first girl and you were acting accordingly and one defied you how you would feel...adreanna is not saying nothing to you that she has not already talked to our Master about and yes sometimes things change....go along with the change....for it is how our Master wanted things.....and adreanna was filling you in on the new rules and situations....
this girl has been asked recently what the role of the home’s first girl is. she realizes that while she knows what her role is (and that is what her Master has set out for her), it has not been set out clearly for others.
this girl hopes that the following will help clarify
this girl belongs to our Master. when she first met him, she was naturally the last girl on his chain. over a period of time she worked hard and became his first girl on his chain. because she is her Masters’s first girl, she also is the homes’s first girl, and with that comes a few extra responsibilities.
any first girl, whether first on the chain or first in home, finds that her primary and most important duty as such is to help the other slaves. to try to help them become the best slaves they can be. in this girl’s case, because she is the home’s first girl, her duty extends beyond that of those on our Master’s chain to ALL the slaves in the home even viziting ones. this can include listening, words of caution, serving as a resource, and so forth.
one of the ways we all improve is to have what we do wrong pointed out to us. this one tries to do so in a non-critical way as much as possible. more than one slave in home has received a pm form this girl noting that proper home procedure ( basic protocol) is this or that such and such a rule is being broken.
being a slave is hard work, there is so much we all must know, that even the most seasoned slave can forget a rule now and then. if this girl sees it, she tries to point it out so her sister will not get in trouble.
this one will be a bit stronger with those she sees deliberately flaunting not only the rules, but the Gorean way and the fire that burns in the belly of true Gorean slaves. as the homes’s first girl, this one holds switching rights over ALL other girls in home. ONLY the home’s first girl has such authority, and this one NEVER wants to use that authority – but it is there and it comes form the books. when a home’s first girl speaks to ANY slave in camp, she is to be obeyed because she does have some authority over them.
however, a good home first girl, and this one hopes she is, does not try to use what authority she has been granted .. rather she tries to get her point across by drawing on the respect she hopes she has earned among her sisters.
she is also there to try to help settle disputes among slaves. Frees should not have to be bothered with petty disagreements among slaves. it is beneath their notice,and the books clearly state that Masters do not bother with their slaves’ bickerings or disagreements. but sometimes it helps to have a third party step in, one who is not involved in the situation, and that is part of this girl’s role as the home’s first girl.
any slave in camp who has a problem should know that she can came to this one at anytime, and this girl will try to help her. it does not matter who her Master is, this girl will listen and try to help. while it is understood that in general, slaves should take their problems to their Masters, in reality their problems often involve their Masters and sometimes it helps to bounce ideas off another before approaching a Master, and sometimes, we all just need a little sympathy. that is part of this girl’s function.
however, two things all slaves in home must understand … if you are whining about things you should not be whining about, then this girl will say so … she is blunt, to the point, and frankly has little patience for those who are not really trying to be good slaves .. but if you have a true problem, this one would cut off her arm to try and help you.
second, you also need to understand, that as the home’s first girl, part of her duty (or any first girl’s) is to keep our Master informed of what goes on in the camp when he is not around or what is going on in the shadows.thus the reason her name is in the home constantly do not ask this girl not to tell our Master something you have told her. she cannot promise that … if she thinks our Master needs to know something, she MUST tell him. He demands that of her, and as his slave this one would never even consider it … she is slave and keeps no secrets from her Master.
a first girl also she knows more about Gor than many in home not saying she knows all...for she is learning every day as well but knows more then some , and as the home’s first girl, this one serves as a resource for both Frees and slaves. she will answer questions as well as she can … as long as she does not perceive that the one who is asking is just being lazy.
let’s face it, this one has spent thousands of hours working on the home’s website, and when the answer can be found there, this one doesn’t really appreciate having to spend her time answering a question that the asker should just go look up for herself. or should know for the many years they claim they have been in GOR rooms
there is an exception to this, though … there are times when a slave is in the middle of a serve or in the middle of talking to a Free , and suddenly comes up short on an answer and needs to know something asap. ask away then … this one will be glad to help.
it also is generally a home’s first girl’s responsibility to train new slaves. at this point, this girl is the ONLY slave charged with that duty. all slaves old and new go through a series of lessons posted on the website, so they all have the same training – they are taught what the Master has told this girl to teach them.
(seems tho we cannot get past basic protocol that is a problem)
also, as the home’s first girl, it is her duty to serve as an example to the others in the camp. this girl is not perfect, far from it, but in home she tries to be as perfect as she can possibly be. this one is like all slaves, she at times disappoints, at times angers, her Master.
finally, even though she is the home’s first girl, this one is, first and foremost, her Master’s slave. a good first girl does not forget that. it is her job to know her Master better than anyone else in home so that she KNOWS what he wants, knows how he would think on a certain subject. this one knows our Master that well … and yet, she discusses everything with him. while it may appear on the surface that this girl is making decisions and acting on her own, that is not the case. this girl can’t remember any incident when she was not acting on her Masters instruction. thus if adreanna tells you something her Master already knows.....and if you all would come around more read the website you will see what you have missed and know what adreanna is telling you is true. girl comes to your pm box or talks to you in the home about things that need to be....yet some of you defi what girl is telling you....and will not go by what adreanna tells you....think if you were first girl and you were acting accordingly and one defied you how you would feel...adreanna is not saying nothing to you that she has not already talked to our Master about and yes sometimes things change....go along with the change....for it is how our Master wanted things.....and adreanna was filling you in on the new rules and situations....